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Even though this progressive Dadding trend has taken off, there are still plenty of conveniently oblivious dads who would rather pretend to be blind and deaf than actually see and help with the chaos of raising kids.
There are many arrangements that work for different people, but more often than not, Moms are pulling way more weight than Dads. It sets the stage for a resentment-fueled marriage headed for divorce, and creates layers of emotional harm for the children involved. Who wants that family?
There’s a long history of this dynamic, but the path woman have paved to make their own careers is changing modern parenting. If they’re stepping up to win that bread, we need to step up on the other end.
Helping your wife cook, clean, do laundry, and know your kids routines inside and out doesn’t make you some beta SIMP with zero testosterone. It takes your marriage to the next level, and makes your wife still want to fuck you. If that’s the case, what’s more masculine than that?
You’ll get closer with your children, and show them their Dad is a caring, considerate person towards them and their mother.
So next time you’re on the phone with your wife who is drowning in diapers and decibels, don’t pull the 90’s Dad move and “stay late” for work.
Help – don’t hide.