About

I started this blog because I noticed an unsettling trend: Dads who just don’t step up.

There are many arrangements that work for different people, but more often than not, Moms are pulling way more weight than Dads, and it’s bullshit. It sets the stage for a resentment-fueled marriage headed for divorce, and creates layers of emotional harm for the children involved. Who wants that family?

There is a long history of this dynamic, but the courageous path woman have paved to have their own careers is changing modern parenting. If they are stepping up to win that bread, we need to step up on the other end.

Helping your wife cook, clean, do laundry, and know your kids routines inside and out doesn’t make you some beta SIMP with zero testosterone. It evolves your relationship to be more balanced, and makes your wife still want to fuck you. If that’s the case, what’s more masculine than that?

Not only that, it will make you closer with your children, and show them their Dad cares deeply for his entire family.

So get in there my guys, and DBAND (Don’t Be A Nineties Dad).